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(Heb 13:4 KJV) Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Most Canadian marriages do breakup because of the spouses also reaping what they had sowed, including unrestrained sexual lusts, personal laziness and unrealistic expectations in life.. but outside persons also do wrongfully help to break up marriages.. marriages do break up even due to the too many immoral Pastors, Ministers who counsel wrongfully divorce, or they wrongfully do fail to help the hurting, afflicted parties, of which there are many.. and finally marriages do break up even due also to bad governmental Ministers, policies that wrongfully encourage divorce, marital break ups too.

Here are 5 related things we all do also need to know..

Marital Counselling - firstly you cannot help a person who refuses the help, to deal with the truths.

1: The word “love” in English has so many different definitions supposedly including

Romance
Eros
Storge
Philia
Self-love
Desire
Agape
Narcissism
Sex
Gay

The word “love” in English has so many various definitions as we all tend to know , for instance: I love my dog, my wife, cherry pie, my children, my sister, myself etc.

But in the Greek there are three basic, main words for love. Eros, Philia, Agape

Eros

One Greek word for love is “Eros”, from which we get the word erotic. It has self-centered interests with its main focus being on physically receiving. 'Eros', means physical, sensual, romantic affections and can be described as desires or erotic love. Many people wrongfully confuse this as being a love from God.. and they sadly do not tend to know any other levels of love.. such as Philia or next even Agape..

Eros is the false type of love that is most emphasized in our society today- a sensual mostly love that is based on receiving- a passionate love depicted on TV and novels, or manifested by Gays. One person once commented: “My friends do not fall in love; they mostly fall into lust.”

A lot, lot of persons also today do LIVE BY THEIR FEELINGS, not by the word of God, they are mostly led by and live by their own demonic lusts, the Eros love.. that is what a lot of these feelings still are.. even the feelings of high, excitements, desires.. they are not living in God's love or on His will for them.. This is not just the gays now, the adulterers, pornographers, but even most of ordinary supposedly good persons too who do this now, next too.

(John 8:44 KJV) Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.

(2 Pet 2:10 KJV) But chiefly them that walk after the flesh in the lust of uncleanness,

(1 John 2:16 KJV) For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.

(1 John 2:17 KJV) And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.

(1 Th 4:5 KJV) Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God:

(1 Cor 6:9 KJV) Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God. 12 All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.

(Gal 5:16 KJV) This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.

(Nahum 1:3 KJV) The LORD is slow to anger, and great in power, and will not at all acquit the wicked: the LORD hath his way in the whirlwind and in the storm, and the clouds are the dust of his feet.

(Prov 29:18 KJV) Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.

Here is some more irony, the last verse is one of the most misquoted verses too that I have come across.. the people who quote it leave out the part "but he that keepeth the law, happy is he." any proper pastoral vision must include him or her observing still God's laws.. all of them now too. That includes God's laws on divorce.. there is no divorce for two married Christian believers under any circumstances.. under any circumstances.. God said so.

The Church can't be claiming to fulfill the great commission of bringing people to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ and yet allowing divorce, or abusing, even persecuting their own members for a start.. I find it very tragic, pathetic, comical the church speaks out against abortions, gays, but not against divorce... or church splits... and yet God hates divorce, and God punishes those who abuse others. It is not enough to preach some truth to others one has also to personally to live it. Pastors and leaders included.

(Mal 2:16 KJV) For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.

GOD HATES DIVORCE AND EVEN ANY OF THE PASTORS WHO COUNSEL DIVORCE THEY WILL ALSO NEXT WILL REAP NEGATIVE CONSEQUENCES, A GARMENT OF VIOLENCE AS WELL...

(Gal 6:7 KJV) Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. 8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

(Mat 18:5 KJV) And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me. 6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. 7 Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh! 8 Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire. 9 And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire. 10 Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven.

The Church itself too often and clearly does not practice this too

(Mat 18:11 KJV) For the Son of man is come to save that which was lost. 12 How think ye? if a man have an hundred sheep, and one of them be gone astray, doth he not leave the ninety and nine, and goeth into the mountains, and seeketh that which is gone astray? 13 And if so be that he find it, verily I say unto you, he rejoiceth more of that sheep, than of the ninety and nine which went not astray. 14 Even so it is not the will of your Father which is in heaven, that one of these little ones should perish.

(Mat 18:15 KJV) Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. 16 But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. 17 And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as a heathen man and a publican. 18 Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven. 19 Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. 20 For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.

In fact the above verses are so often misquoted and are not mentioned that the direct context is still to disciplining a wayward brother or sister in Christ,

(John 13:35 KJV) By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.

(Rev 3:19 KJV) As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.

(Rev 3:20 KJV) Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.

(Rev 3:21 KJV) To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne.

To overcome, means to overcome these personal sins mentioned above, even the sins of tolerating, allowing divorces wrongfully too, sins of abusing others..

(1 Tim 5:20 KJV) Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear.

(Mat 3:7 KJV) But when he saw many of the Pharisees and Sadducees come to his baptism, he said unto them, O generation of vipers, who hath warned you to flee from the wrath to come? 8 Bring forth therefore fruits meet for repentance: 9 And think not to say within yourselves, We have Abraham to our father: for I say unto you, that God is able of these stones to raise up children unto Abraham. 10 And now also the ax is laid unto the root of the trees: therefore every tree which bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. 11 I indeed baptize you with water unto repentance: but he that cometh after me is mightier than I, whose shoes I am not worthy to bear: he shall baptize you with the Holy Ghost, and with fire: 12 Whose fan is in his hand, and he will thoroughly purge his floor, and gather his wheat into the garner; but he will burn up the chaff with unquenchable fire.

More than one, visibly wicked, immoral pastors have told me that we are not allowed to speak out against, about the sins of bad evangelical pastors.. well it is very obvious that the prophets, and Jesus himself disagreed, they called them as well to repentance. All it takes for evil to prosper is for good people to do nothing about it still. God will do his part but we have to do our part, which includes asking them to repent as well now.

(Mat 12:33 KJV) Either make the tree good, and his fruit good; or else make the tree corrupt, and his fruit corrupt: for the tree is known by his fruit.

(Mat 23:29 KJV) Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! because ye build the tombs of the prophets, and garnish the sepulchres of the righteous,

(Mat 25:14 KJV) For the kingdom of heaven is as a man travelling into a far country, who called his own servants, and delivered unto them his goods. 15 And unto one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one; to every man according to his several ability; and straightway took his journey. 16 Then he that had received the five talents went and traded with the same, and made them other five talents. 17 And likewise he that had received two, he also gained other two. 18 But he that had received one went and digged in the earth, and hid his lord's money. 19 After a long time the lord of those servants cometh, and reckoneth with them. 20 And so he that had received five talents came and brought other five talents, saying, Lord, thou deliveredst unto me five talents: behold, I have gained beside them five talents more. 21 His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord. 22 He also that had received two talents came and said, Lord, thou deliveredst unto me two talents: behold, I have gained two other talents beside them. 23 His lord said unto him, Well done, good and faithful servant; thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord. 24 Then he which had received the one talent came and said, Lord, I knew thee that thou art an hard man, reaping where thou hast not sown, and gathering where thou hast not strowed: 25 And I was afraid, and went and hid thy talent in the earth: lo, there thou hast that is thine. 26 His lord answered and said unto him, Thou wicked and slothful servant, thou knewest that I reap where I sowed not, and gather where I have not strowed: 27 Thou oughtest therefore to have put my money to the exchangers, and then at my coming I should have received mine own with usury. 28 Take therefore the talent from him, and give it unto him which hath ten talents. 29 For unto every one that hath shall be given, and he shall have abundance: but from him that hath not shall be taken away even that which he hath. 30 And cast ye the unprofitable servant into outer darkness: there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.

(1 Tim 5:20 KJV) Them that sin rebuke before all, that others also may fear. 21 I charge thee before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, and the elect angels, that thou observe these things without preferring one before another, doing nothing by partiality.

(Titus 3:1 KJV) Put them in mind to be subject to principalities and powers, to obey magistrates, to be ready to every good work, 2 To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, showing all meekness unto all men.

(Rev 3:19 KJV) As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.

(Rev 3:20 KJV) Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.

(James 3:12 KJV) Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh. 13 Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him show out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.

(Mat 5:13 KJV) Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men.

(Mark 9:50 KJV) Salt is good: but if the salt have lost his saltness, wherewith will ye season it? Have salt in yourselves, and have peace one with another.

(Mat 5:16 KJV) Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.

(1 Tim 5:21 KJV) I charge thee before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, and the elect angels, that thou observe these things without preferring one before another, doing nothing by partiality.

(Acts 17:30 KJV) And the times of this ignorance God winked at; but now commandeth all men every where to repent: 31 Because he hath appointed a day, in the which he will judge the world in righteousness by that man whom he hath ordained; whereof he hath given assurance unto all men, in that he hath raised him from the dead.

(Acts 3:19 KJV) Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord; 20 And he shall send Jesus Christ, which before was preached unto you: "

Thousands of years ago Jesus said men and women are equal sinners, and divorce, even murder often is caused by their personal inability to cope with a hard life but also because of personal laziness, unrealistic expectation of life, selfish lusts, sexual lust as well..

I saw firsthand in a Hospital an ostrich type mother indifferent to her very critically ill child because she wanted rather to be on a date with her boyfriend.. men are like that too now.. I have seen such behavior since still too often by men and women. Someone how too many people likely because of commercials have been wrongfully led to believe life should be easy and it is sex that will make you happy.... life is really hard for many persons in reality.. many.. we all seem to have a hard cross to bear... and even sex is not the answer. Jesus alone is.

Someone said the farther west you go in Canada the less compassionate, human the men and women too seem to be. I saw this myself as true.. having worked in 9 provinces myself. But the city of Calgary was one of the worst.. It clearly often broke this commandment.. (Exo 20:17 KJV) Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's. (Ezek 33:31 KJV) And they come unto thee as the people cometh, and they sit before thee as my people, and they hear thy words, but they will not do them: for with their mouth they show much love, but their heart goeth after their covetousness. This verse also to me explains why so many persons even in almost all of the Calgary Christian churches have no care, love for the people in their own church, poor and needy persons included.. (Psa 55:21 KJV) The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords. This verse clearly describes my past relations with the many mostly bad, poor evangelical pastors and governmental Ministers that I have met, dealt with in Calgary and in other parts of Canada..(Psa 55:1 KJV) Give ear to my prayer, O God; and hide not thyself from my supplication. 2 Attend unto me, and hear me: I mourn in my complaint, and make a noise; 3 Because of the voice of the enemy, because of the oppression of the wicked: for they cast iniquity upon me, and in wrath they hate me. While next the pastor, Minister would run to the back of the church service to shake hands with the people leaving the church service, pretend mostly to be nice and kind, friendly to them, me included, I would next find out rather that they would even steal, lie, gossip about and slander the people even in their own churches during the week, even wrongfully counsel divorce, refuse to help the poor and needy persons.. plan to do more wrong as well. Meanwhile some church leader woudl approach me and say too often in Calgary if you divorce your wife i will marry you.. what immoral pigs they are now too.(Psa 55:9 KJV) Destroy, O Lord, and divide their tongues: for I have seen violence and strife in the city.10 Day and night they go about it upon the walls thereof: mischief also and sorrow are in the midst of it.11 Wickedness is in the midst thereof: deceit and guile depart not from her streets. Now why where they so bad? Because they were, were merely hireling prostituting themselves for the money, prestige, recognition and they were not true belivers, servants of God.. They were not walking God's ways, they had refused that, they were mostly walking wrongfully still man's ways. (Psa 55:12 KJV) For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him: 14 But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance.14 We took sweet counsel together, and walked unto the house of God in company. 15 Let death seize upon them, and let them go down quick into hell: for wickedness is in their dwellings, and among them. Thus I would often rightfully pray change them or take them away.. many were fired next.. I only hlped to remove about 18 pastor in Calgary especially for counsleling divorce, absuing others, stealing as well. (Psa 55:16 KJV) As for me, I will call upon God; and the LORD shall save me.17 Evening, and morning, and at noon, will I pray, and cry aloud: and he shall hear my voice.18 He hath delivered my soul in peace from the battle that was against me: for there were many with me. (Psa 55:19 KJV) God shall hear, and afflict them, even he that abide of old. Selah. Because they have no changes, therefore they fear not God. (Psa 55:20 KJV) He hath put forth his hands against such as be at peace with him: he hath broken his covenant.21 The words of his mouth were smoother than butter, but war was in his heart: his words were softer than oil, yet were they drawn swords. This verse reminds me of their reality what many of the pastors, elders in Calgary' evangelical churches even are like too..Sadly I do still have to pray for God to deal with he too many wicked,bad pastors even governmental Ministers now in Canada.. (Psa 55:22 KJV) Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved. (Psa 55:23 KJV) But thou, O God, shalt bring them down into the pit of destruction: bloody and deceitful men shall not live out half their days; but I will trust in thee.

(Jer 18:12 KJV) And they said, There is no hope: but we will walk after our own devices, and we will every one do the imagination of his evil heart.

(Jer 18: KJV) 8 If that nation, against whom I have pronounced, turn from their evil, I will repent of the evil that I thought to do unto them. 9 And at what instant I shall speak concerning a nation, and concerning a kingdom, to build and to plant it; 10 If it do evil in my sight, that it obey not my voice, then I will repent of the good, wherewith I said I would benefit them. 11 ... Thus saith the LORD; Behold, I frame evil against you, and devise a device against you: return ye now every one from his evil way, and make your ways and your doings good.

I had also now written in detail to many persons and said about my experiences in Calgary's evangelical Churches that many spouses have filed for divorce cause they firstly did not have an adequate relationship with God, they did not have a real faith in God, they were thus mostly following their wicked reasons, sinful lusts, desire to have more sex, money, material things too..

(Prov 16:25 KJV) There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

The Human mind is very deceptive, so is the related human logic and the rather twisted incomplete reasoning data we have tends to make it worse, and this is really all because part of the corrupted, fallen human nature resulting when Adam and Eve Sinned.. Thus even today Man, sadly many bad pastors do take the very simple clear Bible verses and try to twist them to their false lusts. Simple clearly verses made by Jesus even like these ones..

(Mark 10:9 KJV) What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter.11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.

How clearly can it be? and yet next like Eve's temptation in the garden of Eden

(Prov 16:25 KJV) There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

"Man too often still tries to do away with God's laws on marriage and to do away with God's laws of no divorce and wrongfully.. Unhappy supposedly Christian spouses even in evangelical Churches wrongfully want to divorce but also want to remarry, for they wrongfully cannot accept the will of God laid out for them, or God for that matter in reality.. a false sexual lust is part of the main problem.. but also more it is a real personal lack of faith in God.. even a lack of faith in (Rom 8:28 KJV) And we know that
all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose... and that now means now your supposedly bad marriage or your past divorce now as well..

The real lack of faith in God causes these people to wrongfully consider alternative explanations, alternative approaches to God's ways? Sound very familiar.. does it now remind of Abraham and his wife Sarah? where Sarah had added a human approach wrongfully to God's way, will.. to get a son ! (Gen 16:1 KJV) Now Sarai Abram's wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was Hagar.2 And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai. Sarah next lived to regret her wrong humanistic approach as well to God's plan, will.. (Gen 16:4 KJV) And he( Abraham) went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes.   5 And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the LORD judge between me and thee. God next returned Abraham to God's original will, for Abrham to have a son through his original wife as well. (Gen 17:15 KJV) And God said unto Abraham, As for Sarai thy wife, thou shalt not call her name Sarai, but Sarah shall her name be.16   And I will bless her, and give thee a son also of her: yea, I will bless her, and she shall be a mother of nations; kings of people shall be of her.

(1 Tim 6:17 KJV) Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy;18 That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate;19 Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life. 20 O Timothy, keep that which is committed to thy trust, avoiding profane and vain babblings, and oppositions of science falsely so called: 21   Which some professing have erred concerning the faith. Grace be with thee. Amen.

So all things do work out for the good of those who love God, but the evil persons rather fall into the pit they dug with their own hands still, next.. that includes divorce now too.. Too many times today many people even supposedly Christian persons they do take an ostrich approach to the Bible, and their unrepentant sins.. they do wrongfully deny the Bible, History that there will be any negative consequences too for it..

(Jer 8: KJV)    5 Why then is this people of Jerusalem slidden back by a perpetual backsliding? they hold fast deceit, they refuse to return.   6 I hearkened and heard, but they spake not aright: no man repented him of his wickedness, saying, What have I done? every one turned to his course, as the horse rusheth into the battle. 7 Yea, the stork in the heaven knoweth her appointed times; and the turtle and the crane and the swallow observe the time of their coming; but my people know not the judgment of the LORD. 8 How do ye say, We are wise, and the law of the LORD is with us? Lo, certainly in vain made he it; the pen of the scribes is in vain. 9 The wise men are ashamed, they are dismayed and taken: lo, they have rejected the word of the LORD; and what wisdom is in them?

(We see do today see ample evidence today of pastors even distorting what they Bible actually says.. even on issues like divorce.. God says no divorce.. no abortion.. no murder... and no gays.)

10 Therefore will I give their wives unto others, and their fields to them that shall inherit them: for every one from the least even unto the greatest is given to covetousness, from the prophet even unto the priest every one dealeth falsely.

( if you look at this verse clearly you will see that divorce is God's punishment, never a blessing too.)

11 For they have healed the hurt of the daughter of my people slightly, saying, Peace, peace; when there is no peace. 12 Were they ashamed when they had committed abomination? nay, they were not at all ashamed, neither could they blush: therefore shall they fall among them that fall: in the time of their visitation they shall be cast down, saith the LORD.

( bad pastors will also pay a price for their lying, unrepentant sins.. that is why so many of them commit adultery now still)

13 I will surely consume them, saith the LORD: there shall be no grapes on the vine, nor figs on the fig tree, and the leaf shall fade; and the things that I have given them shall pass away from them.

(James 4:1 KJV) From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members? 2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not. 3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts. 4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God. 5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy? 6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble. 7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded. 9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness. 10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up. 11 Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge. 12 There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy: who art thou that judgest another?

(James 3:12 KJV) Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh. 13 Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him show out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom. 14 But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. 15 This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish. 16 For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work. 17 But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be entreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. 18 And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.

God has a good reasons for all of us obeying his laws on marriage and no divorce now too...

(Rom 11:33 KJV) O the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments, and his ways past finding out! 34 For who hath known the mind of the Lord? or who hath been his counsellor? 35 Or who hath first given to him, and it shall be recompensed unto him again? 36   For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things: to whom be glory for ever. Amen.

(Mal 2:15 KJV) And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.16   For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously. 17   Ye have wearied the LORD with your words. Yet ye say, Wherein have we wearied him? When ye say, Every one that doeth evil is good in the sight of the LORD, and he delighteth in them; or, Where is the God of judgment?

Like so many other Biblical doctrines, social issues man mostly still perverts them.. that includes the topic of divorce too.. because of unbelief in God and their following their false lusts too..

Now I have validly made up my mind on the subject by doing a very thorough bible study of the topic.. but if you were to next read many other persons views they are so contradictory even amongst each other.. and I said God do I have to God now even deal with all of this time consuming, conflicting presentations now again on the subject of divorce and remarriage? And I was next surprised by God's quick answer, his voice to me directly.. "I hate divorce" and I have personally told you that clearly before too.. and " I also hate, strongly dislike, oppose any Minister who counsels divorce".. well that was a quick and simple study.. and when anyone deviates from God's marriage standard they become a deviate.. a pervert.. Ministers of Justice, Prime Ministers, Presidents and this deviation leads to more and more social problems, social conflicts and not less.. you had started on a very downhill rocky, rough road when you became a deviate, a pervert.

(Rom 1:16 KJV) For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. 17 For therein is the righteousness of God revealed from faith to faith: as it is written, The just shall live by faith. 18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness; 19 Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath showed it
unto them. 20 For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse: 21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. 22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, 23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things. 24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenant breakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

(2 Pet 2:18 KJV) For when they speak great swelling words of vanity, they allure through the lusts of the flesh, through much wantonness, those that were clean escaped from them who live in error. 19 While they promise them liberty, they themselves are the servants of corruption: for of whom a man is overcome, of the same is he brought in bondage. 20 For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning. 21 For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them. 22 But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire.

An immoral person had sent me an offer to purchase his useless book on the Christian's right of divorce and remarriage. He said a second marriage was often better than the first.. He is clearly a learned deceiver, unbeliever in God, he does work for the devil.. I rightfully replied to him that I did not need more toilet paper I had enough, and I also rightfully told him I did not need someone to lie to me as to what was in the Bible for I do regularly read the Bible for myself. I also told him that I do not need to read a book written by a hireling prostitute. He is using the book to conduct seminars.. Yes I do rightfully have a problem and so should we all with the so called but still very immoral Christians persons, rather thieves who are still trying to make money from the Gospel, Bibles, tapes, videos, Books, seminars now as well. So should we all. For I issue all my helps free.. and only false prophets like this false Minister do ask for and take early earthly monetary rewards for supposedly serving God. I also told this false Minister that God and Jesus spoke to me but it was very clear not to him.. for this Minister he does not really know God, Jesus or the Bible's actual teachings..

Needless to say he was very upset at me.. and replied and said to me that I needed to repent for being unloving and unforgiving towards divorced persons..

but I am really still also sure he does not even know what the word "repent" means. It really means saying to God, God I have sinned, I have not obeyed your very clear commandments in the Bible for a start too even on being married only to one wife and no divorce, I will now obey them and please forgive me for not doing so before. Now let God lead you as to what the right thing is for you to do next as well.. are you a Christian Divorced from a Christian spouse? then you have no right to a remarriage still till
your spouse dies.. Not my rule, but God's.

(1 John 1:9 KJV) If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:10 KJV) If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.

Wounded marriages facing divorce can be made whole but very unlikely by Canada's at least 70 percent still ungodly, immoral, lustful pastors, evangelical ones included who wrongfully take the false, supposedly easier way by counseling , recommending divorce.. I know what I am talking about I only helped to remove about 18 of them, very poor pastors from their churches in Canada, including three founding church pastors now as well. and what has the Mother in law to do with it? Recently it was in the state of Washington where a police chief even shot his wife.. and recently the news media reported that Restraining order served on B.C. man hours before wife, mother-in-law slain- - MISSION, B.C. -- A man was being sought after his wife and mother-in-law were shot to death at a hospital had been served with a restraining order hours earlier for harassing his wife, RCMP said.. This same person later shot and killed himself when the police had found him.

These deaths are tragic and likely could have been prevented here and elsewhere too now ..if they had been adequately dealt with next not by easy divorce, restraining orders but by the proper pastoral counseling.. something our ostrich oriented justice ministers wrongfully try to hide from, and I don't really blame them when 70 percent of the pastors are crooked themselves in Canada. In reality more women are filing for divorce than men, and more of them in western Canada than the east per capita.. but adultery is also wrongly rampant there too..

If a pastor, counselor, husband wants to successfully deal with this he needs also to deal and expose these three items

A women tends not to file for divorce unless

1: She already in her mind, or in reality has a sexual partner substitute..

2: She has built up or acquired a cash reserve for the lawyers, divorce court battles..

3: She has the wrong immoral support of her family, friends, associated, community to carry out this wrong adulterous divorce..

Thiose are the facts of life as Jesus told me relating to divorce..

- A women has the false immoral support of her family, and false friends, sadly even pastors, when she applies for divorce.. they are immoral like her and they need to be told this too.. do not hesitate to tell them the whole truth

- A women does not file for divorce unless she in her own real mind she has a substitute sex partner planed next already too.. she will next rush to him.. even though it is mostly also a fantasy not known to others .. unrealistic expectations of life.. a key contributory cause to the sexual divorces mostly today... but you had already agreed with this I see..

- Also do tell Her the wife that before she tries to remove the beam from her husband she needs to still first deal with the beam in her own eye.. first and she needs to let Jesus still make any of the changes in the marriage .. in his time and his way..

- A women also does not file for divorce unless he has at least 10- 15, 000 dollars stashed away to pay the lawyers, and she also expects to make money form the divorce.. and that still makes her an sexual and now economic prostitute.. admit it or not this is a fact.

- and the way she is now treating her husband is the sadly way she responds to God as well in realty and that too still is unacceptable.

(Eph 5:23 KJV) For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

I also whole heartily agree that a wife going behind her husband's back to her relatives, to her pastors, to others is immoral.. is a sin of rebellion as well and I pray she also really now, next repents of this and stops doing this as well.

All the cases where I was able to reconcile the partners, they had to admit. deal with the truths... in other words they had to repent, of these sins, admit how sinful they themselves were, are. .. all of them.. and the still lazy people who do now really not stay in God's word, cause they are spoiled rotten and undisciplined now too God in irony allows them to be divorce, to be punished..

Now I have often seen, encountered this pattern. For example I had told one of my business partner that his wife was having an affair and was palling to divorce him.. he totally disbelieved me.. could I blame it.. it is a shocking jolt to the system. I knew it cause she had asked me out on a date that I had rightfully turned down. He was troubled by what I had said and he went home and thought about.. He decided that he would go through his wife personal affairs and discovered that she had salted away, hidden from him 15,000 dollars. He had found a bank deposit book in one of her boots. But this man denied his wife was filing for her divorce or was having an affair. A few weeks later during a heated quarrel with his wife, his wife blurted out, you are not the only one I have slept with, I have slept with two other guys now as well.. A few months later she field for divorce and divorce him.

The 15,000 dollars was given to her by her brother for the divorce.. .

(Prov 31:12 KJV) She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

(Exo 20:14 KJV) Thou shalt not commit adultery.

(Exo 20:17 KJV) Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's.

(Mat 5:28 KJV) But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

(Mat 5:32 KJV) But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

(Mal 2:16 KJV) For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away:9 Divorce) for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.

I want you also to specifically also not still note God's warning of promise of clothing of violence will follow in the future all of those who DO STILL pursue divorce..

Many people get depressed rightfully when they do really see what other people are really like today... even among their own bad family members, bad pastors, bad elders, bad politicians, bad lawyers.. etc. It is still a sin to follow men over God as well.

God is not taken by surprised by any of this he still has all things under control

(2 Pet 2:7 KJV) And delivered just Lot, vexed with the filthy conversation of the wicked: 8 (For that righteous man dwelling among them, in seeing and hearing, vexed his righteous soul from day to day with their unlawful deeds;) 9 The Lord knoweth how to deliver the godly out of temptations, and to reserve the unjust unto the day of judgment to be punished:

(John 2:24 KJV) But Jesus did not commit himself unto them, because he knew all men, 25 And needed not that any should testify of man: for he knew what was in man.

Sadly divorce is on the increase even among Christians wrongfully , with more women filing for divorces than men as well

Telling all the parties the truth is the first part.. you can start by sending them this.. if you really do now want to fully help, deal with this practically.

(Mal 2:16 KJV) For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.

(Jer 5:8 KJV) They were as fed horses in the morning: every one neighed after his neighbour's wife. 9 Shall I not visit for these things? saith the LORD: and shall not my soul be avenged on such a nation as this?

(Jer 9:1 KJV) Oh that my head were waters, and mine eyes a fountain of tears, that I might weep day and night for the slain of the daughter of my people! 2 Oh that I had in the wilderness a lodging place of wayfaring men; that I might leave my people, and go from them! for they be all adulterers, an assembly of treacherous men.

(Isa 6:5 KJV) Then said I, Woe is me! for I am undone; because I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips: for mine eyes have seen the King, the LORD of hosts.

(Jer 23:9 KJV) Mine heart within me is broken because of the prophets; all my bones shake; I am like a drunken man, and like a man whom wine hath overcome, because of the LORD, and because of the words of his holiness. 10 For the land is full of adulterers; for because of swearing the land mourneth; the pleasant places of the wilderness are dried up, and their course is evil, and their force is not right. 11 For both prophet and priest are profane; yea, in my house have I found their wickedness, saith the
LORD.12 Wherefore their way shall be unto them as slippery ways in the darkness: they shall be driven on, and fall therein: for I will bring evil upon them, even the year of their visitation, saith the LORD.

Firstly a wife (or a husband) who is proceeding with divorce is being led by her sexual hormones, lusts , and that is the number one reasons for almost all of the divorces by women as well today.. they watch too much sex on TV, women's magazines, advertisements and they think they should have the same life.. sex does not make one happy.. Jesus alone does. (Psa 51:10-12 KJV) "Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me. {11} Cast me not away from thy presence; and take not thy holy spirit from me. {12} Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation; and uphold me with thy free spirit."

"King Arthur had a wife who next wanted Lancelot to seduce her".. this kind of demonic fantasy is the unacceptable reality of many ungodly women even today.

People who could approve of divorce, could also next approve of abortion and would approve of murder next too..

The people who get divorce on the average will increase their health problems due to the related stress of a divorce, cause divorce is from hell and not from God..

-and they never experience the real fruit of the Holy Spirit of peace, gentleness.. during or after...

- they will live on the average of 8 years less too.. all of this just for a start.

With the measure you measure it will be measured back to you.. for (Gal 6:7 KJV) Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

This verse still applies for all of her false divorce supporters too.. I know of many many many selfish, unrepentant Friends, neighbours, mothers who wrecked marriages.. lives.. and did not stop doing it too. they all also still needs to really repent, get right with God, the wife and the husband too..

God sees what people will be like at the end after they go through much more hell on earth.. and then may admit how bad they are and the world is.. we sadly really still cannot stop any of the persons suffering really hard next too no matter how much we do care for, really do love them, just like the prodigal son they too may have to mostly learn the hard way take the long way home too..

(Ezek 14:19 KJV)   Or if I send a pestilence into that land, and pour out my fury upon it in blood, to cut off from it man and beast: 20 Though Noah, Daniel, and Job, were in it, as I live, saith the Lord GOD, they shall deliver neither son nor daughter; they shall but deliver their own souls by their righteousness. ... 23 And they shall comfort you, when ye see their ways and their doings: and ye shall know that I have not done without cause all that I have done in it, saith the Lord GOD.

All simple too

Praying they will respond to the truth presented is another matter .. but it still means the truth has to be told.

Take for example now also http://www.homefrontcalgary.com/ HomeFront's mission is to reduce domestic violence in Calgary through coordinated community action. Or is this in reality just another false Calgary Police public relationship site? why just deal with domestic violence now, and why not with all domestic abuses too?

For a start they should also deal with those usless and immoral vultures.. the   lawyers , both male and female now too, even in our federal cabinet ehh, who have wrongfully promoted, encouraged divorce during the recessions as a viable alternative means of employment for them.. and then we promote some of these perverts to judges now as well? Unfortunately I met too many of them in Calgary politics and in the Calgary social circles and found out how immoral many of them were too..

(2 Cor 1:3 KJV) Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; 4 Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God. 5 For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation also aboundeth by Christ. 6 And whether we be afflicted, it is for your consolation and salvation, which is effectual in the enduring of the same sufferings which we also suffer: or whether we be comforted, it is for your consolation and salvation. 7 And our hope of you is stedfast, knowing, that as ye are partakers of the sufferings, so shall ye be also of the consolation. 8 For we would not, brethren, have you ignorant of our trouble which came to us in Asia, that we were pressed out of measure, above strength, insomuch that we despaired even of life: 9 But we had the sentence of death in ourselves, that we should not trust in ourselves, but in God which raiseth the dead: 10 Who delivered us from so great a death, and doth deliver: in whom we trust that he will yet deliver us;

I am able to have a rightful honest Biblical understanding of divorce too and I am able to counsel divorcees with God truths and not man's distorted lies, based on their own wrong lusts..

(Heb 12:2 KJV) Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.   3 For consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds. 4 Ye have not yet resisted unto blood, striving against sin. 5 And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him: 6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not? 8 But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.

4: The Majority of the politicians really do not know what to do about the gay issue.. they wrongfully tend to see the gay issue as an "equality issue" for gays.. firstly as for the gays (2 Cor 11:13 KJV) such are false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into the apostles of Christ. 14 And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. 15 Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works.

(1 Cor 6:19 KJV) What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? 20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

In the approach to simplify the gay issue some persons have both over simplified it and have distorted it as well even as to what the Gay persons do really want. In reality gays do want also the religious acceptance, even God's absolution for their present immorality but on top of that they also do want others to become gay like them.. some they as well do want to have sex with children.

The Gays also wrongfully tend to want to force their moral MARRIAGE, SEXUAL distortion on the Christians and the gays want to have the same church martial rights as Christians in the Christian Church. They cannot.

(John 8:44 KJV) Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.

(John 8:45 KJV) And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not.

(Acts 13:10 KJV) O full of all subtlety and all mischief, thou child of the devil, thou enemy of all righteousness, wilt thou not cease to pervert the right ways of the Lord?

The Gays they can stop ALL OF THEIR dreaming about being accepted by the true Christian Church for their still immoral acts and union.. for the Bible will not change.. and the true Christian church has to always follow God and the Bible... (Heb 13:8 KJV) "Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever". AND WITHOUT JESUS AND THE BIBLE , IT'S TEACHINGS THERE WOULD BE NO CHURCH NOW, NEXT ANYWAY.

Lust is theft of that which does not rightfully belong to you and it is certainly not love, while it is disguised as love. They gay can't even read .. otherwise he would have known that God when he formed a marriage

(Gen 1:27 KJV) So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.(Gen 5:2 KJV) Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. (Lev 20:13 KJV) If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them. 14 And if a man take a wife and her mother, it is wickedness: they shall be burnt with fire, both he and they; that there be no wickedness among you. 15 And if a man lie with a beast, he shall surely be put to death: and ye shall slay the beast. 16 And if a woman approach unto any beast, and lie down thereto, thou shalt kill the woman, and the beast: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them. 17 And if a man shall take his sister, his father's daughter, or his mother's daughter, and see her nakedness, and she see his nakedness; it is a wicked thing; and they shall be cut off in the sight of their people: he hath uncovered his sister's nakedness; he shall bear his iniquity.... 19 And thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy mother's sister, nor of thy father's sister: for he uncovereth his near kin: they shall bear their iniquity.

(Rom 1:21 KJV) Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. 22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, 23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things. 24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,

(1 John 2:16 KJV) For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. 17 And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.

(Gal 5:16 KJV) This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.17 For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. 9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

The Bible is still very clear as to what an appropriate marriage relationship is too.

(1 Cor 7:2 KJV) Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

(1 Tim 5:14 KJV) I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.15 For some are already turned aside after Satan.

(Eph 4:27 KJV) Neither give place to the devil.

(Eph 6:11 KJV) Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.

(2 Tim 2:21 KJV) If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honour, sanctified, and meet for the master's use, and prepared unto every good work. 22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23 But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes. 24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, 25 In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth; 26 And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will. 3:1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4 Traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. 6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, 7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth. 8 Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith. 9 But they shall proceed no further: for their folly shall be manifest unto all men, as theirs also was.

(2 Tim 3:13 KJV) But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived. 14 But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; 15 And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. 16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: 17 That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works. 4:1 I charge thee therefore before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, who shall judge the quick and the dead at his appearing and his kingdom; 2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine. 3 For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; 4 And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.

(1 Cor 3:17 KJV) If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.

(1 Cor 4:21 KJV) What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?

(1 Cor 10:21 KJV) Ye cannot drink the cup of the Lord, and the cup of devils: ye cannot be partakers of the Lord's table, and of the table of devils.

The politicians still do need to see that there is no human rights, equality issue here alone for anyone now fellowshipping with the Satan is immoral still, against God's will for any one of us too.. and TO SEE that this whole gay issue mainly is another weapon by Satan against the Church, an attempt to corrupt the church but the gates of hell will not prevail against the Church..

(Luke 10:18 KJV) And he said unto them, I beheld Satan as lightning fall from heaven. 19 Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you. 20 Notwithstanding in this rejoice not, that the spirits are subject unto you; but rather rejoice, because your names are written in heaven.

My Godly line in the sand has been drawn! I openly, publicly, rightfully do make a clear stand for the traditional family concept only, and I oppose, expose all of its enemies who wish to legalize same-sex marriage and other diverse "family" forms. So should we all. Marriage consists only of the union between a man and a woman and no law can even require, seek that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon unmarried couples or groups.

(Rom 16:20 KJV) And the God of peace shall bruise Satan under your feet shortly. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you. Amen.

Real actions speak louder than words even for any professing Christians

"USA Congresswoman Marilyn Musgrave, R-Colo., has introduced the Federal Marriage Amendment (H.J. Res. 56) as a proposed constitutional amendment, which will remove the definition of marriage from the reach of all legislatures and courts permanently.

This amendment simply states:

"Marriage in the United States shall consist only of the union between a man and a woman. Neither this constitution or the constitution of any state, nor state or federal law, shall be construed to require that marital status or the legal incidents thereof be conferred upon unmarried couples or groups""

http://www.onemanonewoman.com

5: "The South Surrey-White Rock-Langley MP says a handful of bureaucrats in the Prime Minister's Office and a gaggle of cabinet insiders are running the country."Democracy as we know it is failing," and now why does this remind me also of the mostly crooked it seems evangelical pastors too in Canada?

"Ottawa — At leas t60 federal Liberal MPs have publicly declared that they are against legalizing same-sex marriage, the most opposition Jean Chrétien has faced from his own caucus to one of his laws since coming into office 10 years ago. "

Whatever the moral, historical, social or cultural reasons, Canada and the United States are vastly different countries. Their respective attitudes toward same-sex marriage highlight the two countries' dramatic differences too. Gay-marriage in the United States got harsh words from on high when U.S. President George W. Bush stated last week, "I believe that marriage is between a man and a woman and I think we ought to codify that." Taking cues from the Bible"..

Ironically both of the Canadian and the US leaders claim to be Christians.. one clearly seems to be a more practicing Christian.. for they even differ on the subject of divorce.. US president George Bush clearly encourages marital reconciliation and opposes divorce. . it still was the Canadian federal Liberals who liberalized divorce.. and still encourage it ..The federal Liberal government policy of forcing Christian spouses to be divorced in the courts is also unacceptable to the Christians and is still discriminatory to them as the falsely proclaiming practicing Catholics Paul Martin and Jean Chretien should have already know now too.. but don't really care cause they are in reality still lying Catholics, not true believers. Their false support of marriage for gays has started to backfire for the present Prime Minister of Canada Jean Chretien and even for the very likely future Prime Minister of Canada Paul Martin MP for it has now clearly showed to many their shallow moral values, hypocritical and dual standards now as well, and it has started many more persons to question as to how viable they both now really are as national leaders?

Furthermore I have no qualm even as also a professing Christian in speaking up openly against perverted judges and why do then Paul Martin and Jean Chretien now visibly lack this moral integrity? because the issue suits their own false agendas... of trying to get the gays votes.. which is backfiring now on them.. cause they are losing more supporters then they will be getting..

But how come the Western Canadian evangelical pastors now are mostly also as bad as Jean Chretien and Paul Martin, claiming to be practicing Christian they falsely do recommend divorce even of two Christian persons?

(Mat 7:17 KJV) Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit.18 A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.19 Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. 20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.

Their false support of marriage for gays has started to backfire for the present Prime Minister of Canada Jean Chretien and even for the very likely future Prime Minister of Canada Paul Martin MP for it has now clearly showed to many their shallow moral values, hypocritical and dual standards now as well, and it has started many more persons to question as to how viable they both now really are as national leaders? But they same thing is true of the evangelical pastors who advocate divorce.. they show what real liars, hypocrites, false Christians now they too are.. even those in Langley BC or in Calgary, Alberta.

(Ezek 33:26 KJV) Ye stand upon your sword, ye work abomination, and ye defile every one his neighbour's wife: and shall ye possess the land?

Sexual lust is also the majority cause of most of the divorces, and of the union of gays, lesbians, and that sadly too many Ministers, pastors, even Evangelical, Pentecostal ones too, are still wrongfully sex addicts, thus they wrongfully want to keep the option of divorce open for themselves in case their spouse longer meets their OWN sexual needs. They are thus really carnal, serving the flesh and not God still.. Imagine that professing Christians instead of reconciling families, marriages are now wrongfully meddling in my personal family home, breaking it up now too. Yes these same pastoral hypocrites also do falsely tend to lie, slander others , gossip and also to delegate blame on one of the spouses even in a martial problem situation, even with invalid still reasons, basically for them not to personally get involved. The pastor would say something like the husband or the wife was at fault.. so the pastor is still talking only about the negative symptoms of a real marital problem, and what is his real or false solution rather.. pass the buck wrongfully still to the others by recommending divorce.. I would rightfully not give any of my money at all to this type of Pastor or his Church! and I would make sure no one else would now too.. Pastoral marriage Counseling it is still mandatory for all Pastors, all, it is mandatory still that they do also help each and every sheep in their flock, and do home visits as well.. and these two also are not optional.. but sadly majority of Pastors they really still do not have love for the sheep.. and doing the dirtier jobs they wrongfully run away for it.. and God himself told me that this was all was immorally acts on the part of both of these pastors.. and if he does not do this work than he is really not a real pastor.. just another hireling, or a wolf in sheep clothing.. There rightfully is no doubt in my own personal experience that Money hungry Evangelicals Pastors in a hurry to spread their faith for hopeful more monetary gains do even falsely counsel marital divorce, and aid in breaking up homes if necessary to do this.

(Prov 29:18 KJV) Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.

Here is some more irony, the last verse is one of the most misquoted verses too that I have come across.. the people who quote it leave out the part "but he that keepeth the law, happy is he." any proper pastoral vision must include him or her observing still God's laws.. all of them now too. That includes God's laws on divorce and God's laws on no gays as well.. the New testament clearly also says there is no divorce for two married Christian believers under any circumstances.. under any circumstances.

(Rom 13:9 KJV) "For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Thou shalt not covet; and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 10 Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the Law" applies to all of evangelical pastors now as well.

(1 Cor 10:21 KJV) Ye cannot drink the cup of the Lord, and the cup of devils: ye cannot be partakers of the Lord's table, and of the table of devils.

All it takes for evil people to prosper is for good people to do nothing about.. If the evil persons are not punished they will next not learn to do good now too. Public exposure and prosecution of the guilty serves as a best deterrent to all.

To deprive another of the intangible right of honest services." is an immoral, illegal act in as deemed so by the courts in the US now and it also applies to any of our federal and provincial Ministers , who allow, advocate poor law changes, and/or fail to properly enforce existing laws.. and that includes all of the poor public and civil servants, their poor supervisors now as well.

----- Original Message -----

To: pm@pm.gc.ca

Sent: Saturday, July 19, 2003 9:39 AM

Subject: Pretentious justice in Canada

(Lam 3:31 KJV) For the Lord will not cast off for ever: 32 But though he cause grief, yet will he have compassion according to the multitude of his mercies. 33 For he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men. 34 To crush under his feet all the prisoners of the earth, 35 To turn aside the right of a man before the face of the most High, 36 To subvert a man in his cause, the Lord approveth not.

The visible difference between "law" and "justice", while being subtle, causes me personally also to review the proper role of the legal system.

Since EVEN EARLY days, those who dominated society remained in power in Canada also by surrounding themselves with individuals or groups of allies WHO ALSO who could provide them personally too with a defense against either physical or legal challenges of them. That is why an free individual using his right of free speech and writing a personally critical letter to a Mayor (Al Duerr) , a Prime Minister( Jean Chretien) or a Premier ( Ernie Eves) now can still too often have the police immediately being sent to your home to try to falsely intimidate you, and to silence you. ( Now I have experienced this firsthand.) This too common flaw in the legal system is due to the unacceptable fact that the minority elite have too often now used their monetary, political influence to distort the application of justice, of the laws themselves even with the help of other key political leaders, all in order to be more able effectively maintain a status quo, all of which helps mostly the allow a minority group to economically and politically dominate and manipulate the majority.

"Contrary to the generally believed precept, it is not the responsibility of either judges or lawyers to make sure that justice prevails. Whether a law is "just", or not, is quite really irrelevant to both judges and lawyers. To some judges wrongfully their job is simply to interpret and enforce "the law". They can also and some do interpret the law in a manner most favorable to those in power, or to themselves even when there is some personally benefit for them as well to be achieved" Wrongful Politics being played is why you can see different results in various provinces, federal and provincial courts.

The law society itself are not impartial to this in their duties of helping to enforce the laws of the land, for sadly the legal community is an integral perverse part of the reason why an elite group can and continues to dominate society and distort the enforcement of the laws, justice too. The legal fraternity itself too have been able to achieve this for their paying masters without brute physical force but by lies, pretense and a facade of respectability. The legal community can give their loyalties to the highest bidders, and not to carrying out of honest justice and that has been and continues to be the rule, rather than the exception.

The justice, court system itself is too often an unacceptable part of the legal system facade, where too often still the pretentious key players are merely going through the motions of carrying out justice, and not really doing it, even as I have too often seen firsthand whether it is in Alberta's traffic fine court, even in many family courts.

The Law Practices and even the Courts now are still firstly Profit-oriented Businesses and generally like any and every other business, their first priority is to make profits and not to provide real justice, fairness. Secondly they are also politically oriented for what lawyer has not considered next going into politics or getting an political appointment as judge? Whether lawyers are defending the criminal or the victim, they are out to win for their clients hopefully but mostly for themselves. Real Justice becomes mostly irrelevant. Even the well paying crooks, liars and cheats, criminals seem to have no difficulty whatsoever even in hiring lawyers from prestigious law firms who are well connected with the upper echelons of the judiciary to help in the perversity of justice actually carried out. Because in our court system the one group mutually also supports the other, thus the legal fraternity has been able to carry out their mandates immorally and basically they tend to be generally wrongfully unchallenged by the Courts too.

Those who attempt to challenge the authority or wisdom of the Courts can also still be immediately silenced, by intimidation, and when necessary, jailed for "Contempt of Court" something I also have seen firsthand in Canmore Alberta. Of course this weapon is too often brought out, when required, and serves effectively to suppress any threats against the "Divine Right of The Elite". Doing nothing in fact in reality about these perversions in Canada's justice system also still next makes you an immoral accomplice, and not a saint, or a hero.

Now if I can see it all now clearly then who is being fooled ? certainly not me. Nor many others. God is not part of this system , nor like this now too so how long do you think God himself will put up with these perversities of justice before he himself effects some drastic acts to deal with this too on the key individuals now as well? Not too long. At least you now have now been forewarned.

A house divided against itself cannot stand (Mark 3:25) applies to the Churches, and our homes, and our marriages too.

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God Bless you.

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